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I had contemplated putting this in /emo/, but I don't think I need advice really. I just want to vent and get your opinions. I'll try and be objective.
Anyway, my best mate is getting divorced. "Pretty common." I hear you think, which is true. This woman is twisted though and orchestrated this, I feel.
They were having problems, she clearly wasn't happy for reasons still unclear to my mate and he (oblivious) was getting more and more wound up by her behaviour, because she was deliberately trying to bait him into losing the head over a period of months. So one day he does. He comes home a few hours late from the pub where he was having a couple drinks for his Dad's birthday, after buying her a chippy on route to make up for it, and she accuses him of cheating so he snaps, goes volcanic with rage, and bounces his fish supper off her face and calls her all sorts of names.
This is very bad, I do not condone this.
Queue 4 months later, she has left him because he has "changed" and she didn't love him any more, despite sleeping with him up until the day she fucked off. He is myopic at this stage, distraught, ashamed, can't sleep and can't eat. She is taunting him with guys she is dating, manipulating him and threatening him with their kids. She is a gale force cunt, at this point, in my eyes. His best friends, me and another lass (who he cheated on her with, according to her) build him back up. Get him back out in the world, get him to make her sign a joint custody agreement using Child Tax Credits as leverage.
He goes out, meets a girl. That's fine, things are looking up for him. They agree to go on a date. He fucking tells his ex-wife this, which was stupid, but I understand why he did it; turn about is fair play, etc. She is now livid. LIVID! Starts calling him names, going apeshit, accusing him of trying to replace her in the kids lives by having her "play mother to the kids", full blown meltdown material. They haven't even gone on this date yet, never mind her set foot in his house.
She was the one that left him, she created an opportunity to do that and she left. I don't understand why, but she did. He moped and pined for her for months and we had to drag him out the house, he was depressed over what had happened with fishsuppergate and we had him go to counseling over it. If she wanted him back at any stage during that time she could have had him back. She has no right to give him shit for moving on with his life, when within a week of taking her ring off she was bed hopping and getting pissed every night, smelling of booze when he was picking the kids up from her new gaff.
I fucking hate this woman, lads. I don't want to, but I hate her. There is something seriously wrong with her and I can't for the life of me work out why she is such a horrible person. I've known her for years and I never knew she had this in her. To be fair, I didn't expect my mate to throw his dinner at her, but she has used this as a catalyst for divorce and proof he isn't the man she married. She has been browbeating him about cheating on her since the day they met. Something had to give, at least that is the way I see it, but she takes no responsibility for it.
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